Before we jump in on knowing yourself, I want to encourage you to do the what you like and what you’re good at exercise. It can be a real help in moving you in the right direction and or reassure you that you on the right path.
Ok with the said let’s start with how to help you know more about yourself, so you can be more of what you want to be. Some of you might have a real handle on yourself and others might find that they can learn some things about themselves that will be a spring board to reaching their dreams.
The first thing we will look at is your behavior styles. There are four columns below please circle four words in each column. Do not over think. Circle the ones that hit you as right first.
Demanding Inspiring Relaxed Evasive
Driving Magnetic Passive Worrisome
Ambitious enthusiastic Passive Careful
Pioneering Political Patient Dependent
Strong-willed Enthusiastic Possessive Cautious
Cooperative Factual Restless Independent
Low-Keyed Skeptical Alert Stubborn
Cautious Logical Impatient Opinionated
Agreeable Pessimistic Impulsive Unbending
In the next session I’ll well cover the meaning of the words that you’re circled.
I don’t want to make this over complicated. What you will find out is what your dominate behavior style is. There are four behavior styles, Dominance, Influencing, Steadiness and Compliance. Just so you know we are all a blend of the four. However, we have tendencies toward being high in one or two of the four.
By the way one style is not better than the other. For example great leaders are not just in one behavior style. They can be in any one of the styles.
The real trick is to know your style and learn how to have others complements yours.
The next time I’ll give you the definitions of each style and show you what could be your highest behavior style. Then I will show the best way to work the different styles. Yes I am way ahead of myself so you’ll have to wait tell the next time.
Big problem the columns will not line up. I am sure there is a way to make it work, but I don’t know how. If you want the columns to look right go to david@happinessin8steps.com and I’ll E-mail you it.
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