Monday, July 6, 2009
The little things
In business if you do all the little things right you don’t have to sweat the big stuff. In everyday life the little thing are very important to.
In relationships like marriage I have to say the little things are extremely important. Let examine what I mean buy little things.
How about if you say “don’t you look great today” that type of comment goes so far to make you partner, wife or husband really know that you are paying attention to them?
You might say will they don’t pay attention to what I say and I’ll tell you your’ wrong. You might think they are not paying attention but they are.
Your wife or husband does something special and you say thank you. When you say thank you it has to come from the heart. That is because you have to care that what they did was really important for you.
You can volunteer do something that you normally don’t do. It might seem like a small thing to you bet it could be and normally is to your spouse.
Are you getting the drift? What your’ doing by doing the little things is paying attention and we all like attention.
Here is a story how I botched up. We were getting ready to go to some place special and Micki had put a lot of time picking out the outfit she was going to wear.
Down the stairs she came looking like a million buck with a great smile What does this non observant guy say, nothing. Will you can just think about what a lousy time I that evening.
All I had to say you look really special tonight and she did. However, I didn’t say anything.
Normally I am not that dumb, but that night for whatever reason I was. You can bet I won’t do that again.
Now it totally part of my life to do the little things right, it is the only way to go.
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