Thursday, January 21, 2010

Need your thoughts?




You can help me by giving me you thoughts on what you think wealth means to you. I am not looking at as wealth as money, but other things that impact our lives.

In my research wealth is so much more than having lots of money. Here are some things that might help you to start the process of reviewing what being wealthy might mean to you.

Do have a great family and how important are they to you? Most of us more than likely have some strong feelings about our family. In my case, and I think most of you, our families are very important to us.

Yes I feel bless not only have a very special wife and two sons, but five grand children that are very important Micki and me.

Do you get the idea what wealth might mean to you and others, so put on you thinking cap and pour out everything you feel is wealth to you.

It is amazing how the same word mean so many different things to different people. That is why I am asking for you help.

By you sharing your thoughts on wealth to me, it will help me spread the word, in my new book, on why wealth in your life is so important. Your ideas are critical, because they will in lighten others, including me, have a broader understanding of how wealth reaches into our lives.

I thank you in advance for your ideas and support. Of course I will share with all of you.

Just leave a comment on my blog or E-mail me your thoughts to: http://dhalind@gmail.com

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Tuesday, January 19, 2010

Are you a grump?



Are you in a bad mood? Not to worry - according to research, it's good for you.
An Australian psychologist and expert who has been studying emotions found being grumpy makes you think more clearly.

Now me being one of the annoying happy types with my own strengths, miserable people have their strengths, which are better decision-making and less gullible. That is according to the researchers.

While me, the cheerful type , which is I fosters creativity, while gloominess breeds attentiveness and careful thinking, says Professor Joe Forgas in Australian Science Magazine.

That all said I can only take so much of grump people. Yes we love everyone, but that doesn’t mean I have to be around them all the time. Why do not want to be around grump people ? It is because I don’t want to be drawn down to their level.
Personally I like being happy and joyful and when others that don’t like to be happy and joyful I really don’t want to be with them.

Now I know there will be times that you just have to be around them and one of those time in meetings where you need some clear thinking. Yes everyone has their place. One thing I always do with the grump type after the meeting is let them know how much they helped.

Here are some things a grumpy person can do to lift them out of the grumps. That even goes for those that are hard wired to be grumpy.

Don’t Get Stuck in A Rut

Don’t Get Exasperated Over Things You Have No Control.

Have Perspective of Young Child

Leave Criticism To Others

Be Flexible

Positive Attitude

I didn’t say this is easy for the grumpy person, but if they try these things it can help improve their mood. However, in some cases grumpy people are just born grumpy. Thus Grumpy people seldom need reasons to be in a bad mood, but scientists have come up with the perfect excuse: they are born that way.

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Sunday, January 17, 2010

Why would l set goals?



Most people don't even consider setting goals, let alone really know what they want to do tomorrow. These are the people that just never to seem to get anywhere and they never know why.

That's too bad, because with some thinking about what they want to do in life they there life could be some much better. I am not going to get into preaching about setting personal goals. However, if I can give of the results of goal setting and how to do it, maybe I’ll help someone and that would make be very happy.

Let’s start with some facts. There not mind but come from Harvard Business School’s reach on successful people and by the way the study looked at people with similar background and education standards. The study found that 3% of people are successful, 30% moderately successful and 67% just exist. Why might you think this could happen?

Let’s look at the 3%. They had written down specific goals, while the 30% had some idea of us here they wanted to go, but had no formal written goals. The 67% had no idea of what was happening.

If you are in the 30% it won't take much for you to get in the 3%. All you have to do is use your mind to develop a plan to achieve your clearly written goal.

If you are not in the 3% then here is something you can do. Start with a time management goal. Smart goal setting take some thinking about where you want to go, what your good at and what is important to you. If you start there with you'll be on the path to smart goal setting.

Look for my next article that will spiciificly deal with smart goal setting.

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Saturday, January 16, 2010

What went right



Did things ever fall in place and you really didn't know why? I think that is way it should be. Why do I think this. It is because we are all part of this wonderful universe and when we have spiritual consciousness many very positive things start to happen.

We start to understand that when things happen they happen for a reason. We might not understand at the monument, but as time goes on you will understand that what accrued ended up being the best thing that ever happened to you.

As you grow in spiritual consciousness you will become more in metaphysics consciousness. Now the world looks not like a daunting place but a world that is full of opportunities and opportunities that you have never seen in the past.

When you look inside yourself you start to appreciate the wonders of you own self. You’re a wonderful being and a one of a kind. And your part of universe that is endless.

You now have the ability to accept the world as it is rather than try to change it. You might have learned how to ride the wave and enjoy it, you will find it a great experience.

Acceptance is an amazing thing. Life is no longer a struggle, but a wonderful journey. The journey will take you many places and many situations, all of which will give you further understanding.

We will never know all the answers, but will be comfortable knowing that by accepting things as they happen is what is suppose to be. Life is amazing and it is yours to enjoy.

As it has been said take time to smell the rose, watch the sunset or view the beauty of nature. Your live will be much richer for it.

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Friday, January 15, 2010

Smiling is contagious



Just think of all the times you smile a day. I hope it is a lot, because when you smile at other you are giving them a gift and helping them have a good day. That’s not bad and it didn’t cost you a cent.

Think about there are so many reasons why to smile. Sometimes you can just smile with no one around, just because you feel so good. How about giving a big smile to the mirror in the morning, that is a good way to start the day and make sure your smile is in good shape.

When you look at a little baby, I bet your face is full of a very loving smile. Those little one always fill my heart with love.

Let’s say you heard some really exiting good news, what do you do, you put on a big smile. A big smile tells a lot about us. When you smile you can be excited and happy or filled with joy. What really matters is you expressing yourself in a very personal way
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There is not many times that you should not smile, and in minute I’ll
give you one, but for now let’s continue on the many of the reasons to have a smile.
Have you ever been away from home for some time? Will what happens when you see your wife or husband and family. You put on the biggest smile along with a lot of hugs and kisses. Those smiles come from deep within your heart and everyone that see that smile knows it. You also have a hard time getting the smile off your face and that is because you are so happy.

Now here is one of the situations you shouldn’t smile. If your spouse or boss is chewing you out, DON’T’ SMILE. That I think is a big one. Of course there are other times, but I don’t want to get into them now.

Here it I, when you smile it is contagious and you makes yourself and other feel good.

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Wednesday, January 13, 2010

Get up and do something



It takes that attitude at times to make things happen. Just do something even if it not something that you think will help. Why might you ask, just do something?

Here is one reason if you don’t start anything how are your’ ever going to finish it. Now once you have started something put your brain in gear and ask yourself now that I am ready to do something, what should I do that advance me toward my goal or mission.

You see once you get started a lot of very positive things start to happen. The inertia that might have creep up on you starts to vanish. This is a big plus because you now have your mind and body ready to do something.

So many people just don’t have the self determination to get started, but once is started, take advantage of it. Tackle some of the things you have been putting off. You will be amazed how many things you can get done when you put your mind to it.

The more you wait to get started the more reasons you can dream up why you shouldn’t start, but once you get in gear and start the things you have been putting off seem to vanish and then you realize that all the reasons you came up with not to get started where not real, but a form of procrastination.

Now that you have gotten started, take advantage of it and don’t stop. The list that had been building will melt away and you know something the weight that you had been carrying around because you haven’t got started on these projects will leave you and help you to continue moving ahead.

Getting started is in most cases is the hardest thing to do, so push yourself to get started. You will feel so much better and reduce the stress that had been building up inside of you.

Get it up and do something, your life will be better for it.

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Tuesday, January 12, 2010

Felling grumpy is good for you


That is what an Australian psychology expert who has been studying emotions has found being grumpy makes us think more clearly. That might be all will and good but what is the impact on people around them. In my opinion grumpy people are downright annoying.

This could be because I am a positive happy person that enjoys life and enjoys being around positive and happy people. When a grump appears it like throwing ice water on me and that is not a very good feeling.

Now that you know how I feel, I have to tell you after some research I have found out that grumpy people actually have some very positive things to add to society. Here is a strong point of grumpy people. There negative moods trigger more attentive, careful thinking, paying greater attention to the external world and I must admit there is time that is needed.

Professor Forgas said: "Whereas positive mood seems to promote creativity, flexibility, co-operation and reliance on mental shortcuts and that is me MR. Positive. So I guess to keep things in balance we need the whole mix of types of people to keep society on the straight and narrow.

I am going to continue to research on grumps so I can put a more positive spin on them. Though I still don’t have to like being around them, I can appreciate what they bring to the table.

Here is question for you. Would you rather work with happy positive person or a grump? Please E-mail at www.dhalind@gmail.com. I won’t use any names, but I will share your thoughts with my listeners and readers.

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