Judge

Judges job is to judge because it is the law and they judge based on the law. That is their job. If you are a manager you have to evaluate the people that work for you. That is part of your job. It is my hope that when you do the evaluations you take a very open and honest view of the people you evaluate.

As a parent you have to make decision of how your children are doing. Yes that is a form of judgment. In my view that is where judging stops.

We shouldn’t be judging on how people look or even act. I’ll give you my big judging problem. When I drive people I am sure are out to annoy me. A good example of things the bother me is when I am driving and I am slowing down for a light and I give myself a couple of care lengths form the car in front of me and looking in the rear view mirror there is not a car within miles. Then out of nowhere this person cuts in front of me and makes a left turn. Now that did really frosts my pipes. Oh I can go on an on how driver can really get me upset. And I am sure you have your list of things other driver do that, to put it mildly, really annoy you.
Will my options’ of others diver change things? I don’t think so. So why should I waste my time. Won’t it be better if I just sat back and enjoyed the drive and finally arrived at my destination relaxed and ready to enjoy the world? Yes I think it would be.

So it is my option that judging others is a waste of our time and energy. If we put that time and energy in to achieving our goal look how much farther we would be at reaching them.

When you get up in the morning tell yourself “I am not going to judge anything today” If a day is to long, say a half a day. By not judging you will find your life will start to mellow out and you will be a much better person for not judging.
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