Some people are selectively grumpy

You have met and I have met people that are so pleasant most of the time. Then you see them with somebody and for whatever reason they treat this person like they have poison ivy.

There might be some reason why this happiness. Let’s say this person that is very nice to you and not to some others. There are some differences that this person feels comfortable about with you but not with another. If this person is a hard charging get things done at all cost and the person there dealing with is the steady easygoing person there can be a problem. The reason is the charger wants the thinks done now and sees no reason why it can’t be done pronto.

The steady person want to think through what to and doesn’t like to jump feet first in to something. Now you can see where the problem comes from.

There are some things that alleviate these problems. If the hard charge understood that he or she is a hard charge that is good. Secondly if the hard charger understood that people that are different doesn’t mean that they are bad or good, but different from them self.

There are a lot of other things that can cause people to be selectively grumpy. The big reason is the lack of understanding of hem self and others.
Today I only touched on one small example of a cause why people are frustrated and or grumpy to some people

When you have good understanding of yourself that is a good start, but what is the real kicker is when you understand other. When you understand others better it so much easier to have them wanting to listen to you.

In the future I’ll be giving you information you can use in understanding yourself better. You more than likely have good understand of yourself, but just in case your’ missing a little something I’ll give you some ideas to help enlighten you.

You will also learn how to better understand others and deal with them. It will make you life so much more enjoyable.

Happiness with health and wealth to you

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David is an author, speaker, consultant and coach, he is a community leader, educator and has worked with fortune 500 hundred companies as well as individuals. He also has been a CEO of a national manufacturing company and cares deeply about people