It has been many years sense that I had this experience, but human nature doesn’t change so the story is the same. The first time you meet the father of your girl friend you can feel some tension in the room. It is not that he is a bad guy, but he knows how he liked girls when he was my age.
It takes awhile before you and the father start to relax. That is you ever go over to our girl friend’s house again. Let’s say for kicks I do. Each time you meet the father of your girl friend tension lessons, but then the questions start.
What do want to do after high school? Where do you live? And just a load of probing questions. If that isn’t enough he wants you to sit down and it is always in one of those chairs that you can sink right down to the floor.
If you date this girl for more than a few weeks the pain and tension subsides on each additional visit.
There was one thing I really never felt comfortable with the father of my girl friend until I got to college. That might be that I was a little older and wiser.
If you date this girl for over six months, then questions change to have you thought what you and Ms. X are planning for the future. That type of questioning really made me sweat.
What I really trying to say the father of my girl friend never really trusted me and he would make comments to re enforce his feelings. How about “You know that is my precious little daughter, you take special care of her.” Of course I am going to take care of her.
What I really wanted to tell him is his daughter is the hottest thing and she doesn’t really care about what he thinks her and I should be doing. Let’s face it we, girl friend, were in love and we will do what people that were in love do.
Now I must say I was in love with her until we broke up. Then the whole cycle of meeting the new girl friend’s father started all over again.
Now I understand why I was so stressed out as a youngster
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