This is like the old debate, which came first the chicken or the egg. You know I don’t have a perfect answer, but I’ll try.
To be happy we have to want to be happy. So now we have a start. Wanting to be happy is the first step. Someone might say I am just happy and don’t think about wanting to be happy. My answer is that’s OK, because your’ happy. Is that a way to duck a question or not.
When your’ happy how do you feel about others? We’ll I’ll tell you how I feel about others. I want them to feel good and happy, so I can go out and help others.
Yes I like to be around happy people, but there are times they just can’t be happy. It could because of circumstances that are just bad, I loss of a love one, a loss of a job, or many others thing that at that moment are out of their control. Being the happy person during that time is not appropriate, but caring and loving attitude is what is most needed.
Underneath what you are giving the grieving person is real happiness, because you are giving them your love and understanding. So you can see happiness does play and important part in helping others.
Now for the big stuff, if your’ not happy how can you help others be happy? The answer to that question is you can’t. Thus you have to be happy before you can help others be happy.
Now that you know what comes first, you have a responsibility to make sure you not only happy but building happiness within yourself. Then and only then can you be of help to others.
Happiness with wealth to you
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David is an author, speaker, consultant and coach, he is a community leader, educator and has worked with fortune 500 hundred companies as well as individuals. He also has been a CEO of a national manufacturing company and cares deeply about people
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